Any advice for a Christian women who's husband isn't very dedicated to God?

He claims he's a believer, but really it really doesn't drive him and does not appear very important to him. We are "unequally yoked" I guess and it has always given us a lot of issues. I'm torn between being a strong evangelical Christian, and being a submissive, respectful wife. It's hard to be attracted to someone when they don't share you're most important value/faith.